{"id":149,"date":"2017-02-03T02:13:22","date_gmt":"2017-02-03T02:13:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/?p=149"},"modified":"2019-03-31T03:03:21","modified_gmt":"2019-03-31T03:03:21","slug":"complacency-vs-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/?p=149","title":{"rendered":"Complacency vs. Reality"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"le22-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"le22-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"le22-0-0\">I had a very interesting talk with my Sensei yesterday when discussing a book that we are working on. It will be about HIS Martial Arts, and his seminal contribution to Reality Based Training &#8211; Kapap.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"525fr-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"525fr-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"525fr-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"drj7e-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"drj7e-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"drj7e-0-0\">While talking we were discussing how some Martial Artists have gotten a bit away from the reality of what they are &#8216;training for&#8217; and teaching others as the truth. <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"nq2t-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"nq2t-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"nq2t-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"6poh9-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"6poh9-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"6poh9-0-0\">He spoke for several minutes about the efficacy of their goal. He&#8217;s found a very sobering and straightforward way to open their eyes to what they might really face. It&#8217;s nothing like what they think it is or will be &#8211; it&#8217;s reality.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"oisc-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"oisc-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"oisc-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"cjcf7-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"cjcf7-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"cjcf7-0-0\">His solution got me to thinking and I asked, &#8220;do you think that they&#8217;ve become to comfortable working with willing uke&#8217;s and the safe &#8216;sport&#8217; rules adhered to in their training in their home Dojo&#8217;s, and the rules generally extended to visiting &#8216;teachers?&#8217;<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"3avrm-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"3avrm-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"3avrm-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"9j59t-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"9j59t-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"9j59t-0-0\">Yes, exactly.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"iubh-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"iubh-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"iubh-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"1tgkn-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"1tgkn-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"1tgkn-0-0\">There&#8217;s nothing more sobering than seeing what the realities are of &#8216;your art&#8217; when used in the capable hands of an untrained assailant &#8211; one that doesn&#8217;t follow the rules that you follow. The reality is that you don&#8217;t need to be an expert to prevail &#8211; it&#8217;s proven that un-trained people are every bit as capable or more so &#8211; because they don&#8217;t follow the rules.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"af8ig-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"af8ig-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"af8ig-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"3uaj4-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"3uaj4-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"3uaj4-0-0\">Of course, this is nothing new, but over the last 9 years that I have been re-involved with MA, I had a gut feeling based on my reality -dealing with non-compliant types on a daily basis. <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"7k6h9-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"7k6h9-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"7k6h9-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\">\n<p><span data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\">I may write an article to speak to this. Not to offend anyone, but to make those that continue to delude themselves stop and think. Think hard.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"au1u5\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\">\n<p>xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\"><\/div>\n<p>The finished and complete article has been published in three installments at CRGI:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\">Part 1 &gt;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/conflictmanagermagazine.com\/tools-to-combat-the-issues-of-complacency-vs-reality-part-i-tim-boehlert-with-matt-swartz-nysp-ret\/\">https:\/\/conflictmanagermagazine.com\/tools-to-combat-the-issues-of-complacency-vs-reality-part-i-tim-boehlert-with-matt-swartz-nysp-ret\/<\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\">Part 2&gt;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/conflictmanagermagazine.com\/tools-to-combat-the-issues-of-complacency-vs-reality-part-ii-tim-boehlert-matt-swartz-nysp-ret\/\">https:\/\/conflictmanagermagazine.com\/tools-to-combat-the-issues-of-complacency-vs-reality-part-ii-tim-boehlert-matt-swartz-nysp-ret\/<\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\">Part 3&gt;\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/conflictmanagermagazine.com\/tools-to-combat-the-issues-of-complacency-vs-reality-part-iii-tim-boehlert-matt-swartz-nysp-ret\/\">https:\/\/conflictmanagermagazine.com\/tools-to-combat-the-issues-of-complacency-vs-reality-part-iii-tim-boehlert-matt-swartz-nysp-ret\/<\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\"><\/div>\n<p class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"a0c2-0-0\"><em>I had the able assistance of Matt Swartz in finishing and polishing these ideas off. Matt is a retired NYSP officer, whom I&#8217;ve had the pleasure of training with &#8211; both he and his wife Carla. Both good people and proud to know them both.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had a very interesting talk with my Sensei yesterday when discussing a book that we are working on. It will be about HIS Martial Arts, and his seminal contribution to Reality Based Training &#8211; Kapap. \u00a0 While talking we were discussing how some Martial Artists have gotten a bit away from the reality of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/?p=149\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Complacency vs. Reality<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-149","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-conflict-research-group-international"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/149","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=149"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/149\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":676,"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/149\/revisions\/676"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=149"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=149"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/defendublog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=149"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}